“The bucks Test”: Strengthening Heteronormative Gender Jobs Around Ladies’ Emotionality
Exploring the presentation regarding feelings in reality relationship suggests, Dubrofsky (2009) talks about exactly how contestants' emotions usually are controlled so you can bring the fresh “money test” (Grindstaff, 2002: 168), a phrase lent of movie porno to spell it out the orgasmic world
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