So, maybe that is something important to keeping the intimacy going is that it doesn’t necessarily have to be sex
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Rebecca Gillett: Some days, though, no matter what anybody's intention is, you might just not be in the mood. And when you're in a lot of pain, you might not wanna be touched, and that can be misconstrued as: I don't care about you. How do you give advice to people who ask about: How do I say no without hurting their ego?
Iris Zink, NP: The person with whatever the chronic disease is, or the type of arthritis is, needs to understand what their disease is. And their partner needs to understand what the disease is. I think it's gonna be much easier for me to accept that my partner isn't feeling well if I understand what it is that makes them not feel well. Because many people with arthritis, you can't see what the problem is.